Child Welfare Board honors child abuse victims with annual courthouse display
By Carla McKeown/Breckenridge Texan
It is a somber task that the members of the Stephens County Child Welfare Board take on each April as they honor the children of the world who have died from abuse or neglect in the past year. And, yet, the group of local women makes an effort to turn the annual Child Abuse Awareness Month display in front of the Stephens County Courthouse into a celebration of the children’s lives, rather than just a symbolic graveyard.
Last week, eight women gathered to place dozens of small white crosses on the courthouse lawn in remembrance of the 235 regional children who died from abuse and neglect in 2020 and part of 2019. Nestled among the crosses are blue and silver pinwheels, as well as wooden cutouts of small children and cartoon characters. The display also includes a larger cross, some signs explaining the meaning of the items, and a tree covered with 20 pairs of shoes, representing the 20 local children who are in foster care.
Working on the display were Stephens County Child Welfare Board Chair Sharon Wimberley and members Alva Carey, Jan Davis, Carla Barnes, Fran Sikes, Sandy Broyles, Linda Lippe and Linda Burdic. A couple of members, Ruth Taylor and Stephanee Russell, couldn’t attend the event. Helping out were courthouse employee Jhon Rios and Stephens County Commissioner Eric O’Dell.
The morning they worked on the display, the ground was so dry and hard, they had to pour water onto the spots where they wanted to place the crosses. Some used hammers and spikes to pre-drill holes into the dirt so that the crosses and pinwheels would stand firm in the winds that blew through downtown Breckenridge.
April is Child Abuse Awareness Month, and each year, the child welfare board members try to make the display a little different than past years. This year, they added small red birds and bluebonnets.
Later in the month, the board will host a candlelight ceremony with County Judge Michael Roach in front of the courthouse to pray for all children, alive and deceased. The ceremony will be open to the public. The specific date and time of the ceremony haven’t been decided on yet.
Additionally, the last Sunday in April is known as Blue Sunday and is designated as a day of prayer in churches that choose to participate and pray for the victims of child abuse and for those who rescue them. Members of the Stephens County Child Welfare Board will be contacting each local church and inviting them to participate.
Symbolism
The items featured in the Child Abuse Awareness Month display in front of the Stephens County Courthouse have symbolic meanings in the fight against abuse and neglect.
According to a Chicago Tribune article, the color blue became associated with child abuse awareness through the tragic story of Michael Wayne Dickson, a 3-year-old who was beaten to death in 1989 by his mother’s boyfriend. After the incident, his grandmother, Bonnie Finney was “outraged, distraught and haunted by the memories of the black-and-blue marks that covered her grandson’s body,” the story says. So, she attached a blue ribbon to her car antenna in remembrance of young child abuse victims and in outrage of such crimes. Over time, the color blue was adopted by organizations trying to prevent abuse. The Stephens County display includes blue ribbons, blue pinwheels and bluebonnets.
Additionally, according to the organization Prevent Child Abuse America, the pinwheels represent “childlike whimsy and lightheartedness and our vision for a world where all children grow up happy, healthy, and prepared to succeed in supportive families and communities.”
This year, tiny red birds were added to the display on the courthouse lawn. Not only do they offer a bright spot of color, but, according to old folklore, when a cardinal or red bird appears, it is an angel visiting.
The pairs of shoes attached to the tree in the middle of the courthouse lawn represent the 20 Stephens County children who are in foster care.
To see more photos of the Child Welfare Board decorating the courthouse lawn, click here for the Breckenridge Texan photo gallery.
Cutline, top photo: Stephens County Child Welfare Board Chair Sharon Wimberley installs a small white cross in the Child Abuse Awareness Month display in front of the courthouse. (Photo by Tony Pilkington/Breckenridge Texan)
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